This Southern Belle's Musings

This Southern Belle's Musings

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Thursday, February 03, 2005

In A Split Second . . .

. . . everything can change.

You never expect when the telephone rings, or the doorbell chimes, that life -- as you've just known it to exist -- is about to change forever.     But, that's exactly what happened yesterday.     And, in the grand scheme of things, to many, it wouldn't seem so earth-shattering but, as it relates to my world, it's difficult to get my head around.

Logically, I can fathom the pros and cons from a spreadsheet approach (and, isn't that how you were asking me to look at it?) but, from an emotional position, logic means nothing when rhythm and heartbeat are completely disrupted.     You're actually asking, not only for my opinion, but my permission, and that truly isn't fair.     If I say it is a bad idea, you'll eventually resent me for it; and, if I say it is a good idea, I'm slowly losing you in the process.

So, whichever decision you ultimately make, it will be your own, without my input or influence.     And, you'll "own" the decision (which, if we're both honest, you've already made, haven't you?).     But, please be sure to let me know, ever time you look down at your right hand and see that gold band with diamonds, if money really is more important than love.     (I'm sure "she" told you it was; that's how you ended up in this mess in the first place.     Remember that ever time you look down at that solid gold band on your left hand!)

Now, if I could just get Stevie Nicks and Tom Petty out of my head!

Stop draggin' my...
Stop draggin' my...
Stop draggin' my heart around.

Category:: Life / Relationships

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Susan Reno-Gilliland, known as "Miss Kitty," an Irish lass, a true Southern Belle; a writer, photographer, animal-lover, dreamer, stargazer, totally tangled (or is that entangled?) in relationships, slightly obsessive iNFp with stories to tell! . . . (fascinated by forensics, human behavior, pushing all the right buttons of men I find interesting, and seeking utterly-sweet revenge without any repercussions.) I am a Friday's Child. Friday's Child is loving & giving.
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